0 Love is only a feeling ?

Love is not just for boyfriend girlfriend. Family, friends, enemies, etc... So what is love? Well, I'm no expert, but I will just tell you guys what I think what love is.

For me, love is not just a feeling. Love can be a desire. When you desire something or someone, you would LOVE to have that certain thing or person. Love can be disguised by hate. When you love someone so much it hurts, you hate that person for making you love him/her that much. 

We are all selfish creatures. We think or help others to satisfy ourselves. That's not a bad thing at all. People donate to help the less fortunate because it makes them feel good. Therefore, it satisfied them by making them feel like they have helped others. Other people don't like giving to others and we might call them selfish. Like I said, we are all selfish. We give to make us feel good, so we were not only thinking about how we can help others, but also how it would make us feel about it. 

Others don't give because it makes them feel good. If giving to others make them feel uncomfortable, they would definitely not do that. We think about ourselves before others. Some say that they think about others first, but unconsciously they thought about how thinking about others first make them feel so you thought how it would make you feel first before thinking about them. 

I know it might be very confusing for some to understand. It is very hard for me to actually write down my own "understanding" of what love is. Tell me what you think love is. Do you agree with me? Or do you think that it's the total opposite?