I still complain but not as much as before though. I hated when things go wrong and I'll feel discourage.
I'm an escaper. I escape from reality a lot of times. I pretend things are fine and blank out my mind to stop thinking about bad things. I realize that it might be a bad thing because if there is a problem and you try to not think about it, it can never be solved.
I've learn how to be positive in many things now. I still get my mind off things but sooner or later I'll have to face reality. One thing I learn on how to deal with a problem is to be positive. Think positive, think on the good side. Like..." oh, this can be a life lesson for me to do better next time"...or ... "life always has its ups and downs, this little thing will pass"
It always help me to calm down and try to deal with the problem. I love how it helps me every time. Life is a gift. The best gift you have ever gotten. Sure that it has some bad times, but always think about the good times. If you didn't have a life, those good times wouldn't ever have existed.
This new year can be a new start but also can be a year of realization for many. You have lived for so many years now, look back and think about the things that make you never want to forget. Think about also the many craps that you have been through. You lived through all those moments. Bad things will come but it will also pass.
Keep moving forward and live your life. We have received many gifts but life itself is the best gift that you have ever gotten, so enjoy every second of it.
Happy New Year everyone!
