0 KK Love Q&A -July

July

Q: KK, I've been dating this guy for 4 months now and every time I try to talk to him about meeting my parents, he always come up with an excuse. He never talk about his family nor his old relationships. He treats me really good, and I can feel that he loves me. I love him too, but it's just that sometimes I feel that he's not taking us seriously. What shall I do? Should I break up with him? I don't know what he's thinking.
-Anonymous

A:Dear Anonymous,
Like you said, you know that he loves you. Why not find a good moment and have a little chat with him. Maybe if you tell him how you feel he'll understand. You should never ask me if you should break up with him or not. What's the point of bringing that up? You love him and you know that he loves you. Maybe he wanted your relationship to be more stable before taking the next step. If you never ask, you never know.




Q:Hi, I need your help. I have this major crush on this guy at my history class at summer school. I'm a junior and he's a senior. Recently, we got a project and the teacher put me with him and some other girl which I don't know. He doesn't talk to me. He keeps talking to the other girl on the team. I'm nervous of giving suggestions for the project because he's there. How do I talk to him? -Lizzie

A:Hi Lizzie,
First of all, calm down and try to relax when he's around. You don't wanna make a fool out of yourself when he's there. First try to talk to the other girl in your team because it might be easier for you. Since she talks to the other guy, you can tag along if you know the other girl and it might not make you nervous. Give out suggestions for the project out loud to the girl and if he thinks that it's good then he might just start talking to you about your suggestion.




Q:Hi KK, I need your help! I had this really stupid fight with my fiancee because of a friend of his. I live with my fiancee for almost a year already. We've been dating for 3 years, and he proposed to me right before we moved together. The thing is, a friend of his "came to visit relatives, but no room on relative's house to stay" and call him to ask for a place to stay fro a week. He offered to stay at our house and I didn't have a problem with that until I saw his friend. It's a GIRL! If it were a guy I understand, but why would a girl ask a guy, which she knows that lives with his future-wife, to stay at his house. He told me that she was always just a friend, but she told me that they dated before. I argue with him over that and now he's at his parent's house leaving me here with that girl. HELP! PLEASE! - Angry fiancee

A: Dear Angry fiancee,
She's only staying for a week . After she leaves, have a talk with your future husband. You guys have been together for so long and now argue over somebody that was on the past? Come on, think about this "Did he had any reason to lie?". Maybe he isn't thinking about the past with her and thinking about right now with you. What's the point of bringing up past love lives when he have somebody in the present that is very precious for him. Forget about his past, the present is what's matter now. And if you don't fix this, maybe no future. You want a future with him? Trust him.




Q:Hi kk, my name is Brianna. My parent said they won't let me have a boyfriend until I'm capable of taking care of myself. I'm 16 already and never had a boyfriend before. I love them very much and I've listened to them for so long. There is this boy at my neighborhood that asked me out. I like him too, but I told him that I'm not sure so he suggested we go out several times before giving him an exact answer. The thing is, I feel bad for hiding this from my parents. But if I tell them, they will get mad and not let me go to dates with him. How do I tell them?

A: Dear Brianna,
I know how you fell. We've all been there. It is very great of you to understand your parents' care. I think that before giving that guy your answer, tell your parents about this. Tell them what you did, say that you really like that guy, but you knew that they needed to know about this first before deciding to be his girlfriend or not. They will know how you put them in the first place and might decide to give you a chance with the guy.

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